I Don't Do Toy Rotation. I Sort by Category Instead.
Toy rotation sounds perfect on paper. I don't do it, and here's the category system with kid-owned cleanup that holds up with three kids.
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Toy rotation sounds perfect on paper. I don't do it, and here's the category system with kid-owned cleanup that holds up with three kids.
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